You are going to be okay you know? You’re gonna be just fine. (Brushes tears from cheek lovingly). Even if it doesn’t feel like it right now, I need to listen and I need you to trust me please. YOU are going to be just fine.
You just lost your favorite person honey that’s all. That is what hurts so much. Your heart is telling you that you won’t be okay on your own, that you’ve lost your home, that you’re a dog and you need your master, but that is simply not true. Your heart only thinks that it’s true because your heart has been traumatized before and it still carries some of the wounds… It doesn’t always remember v that you’re not 3 years old anymore, that you’ve lost your home (in fact you never had one) long ago and that you’ve been fine ever since. It doesn’t always realize how strong and powerful you’ve become… Or that your spirit is brave and your soul courageous. You are going to be your own home now darling. You can do it. You know how I know? Because you’ve been doing it successfully for the longest time… You just haven’t realised it… But now, now that I’ve pointed it out… Hopefully you do. I love you hun and you deserve love and all that’s good in the world. And you should love you too, because you are freaking awesome..
I've got borderline personality disorder. I'm divorced. I'm in my early thirties. I'm really confused.
I'm in a relationship. I'm an entrepreneur. I'm honest. I like to think I'm a good person. I'm definitely an empathic person. I'm a caring person. I try to make the world a better place.
I experience extreme highs and extreme lows. I have difficulty processing emotions. I have difficulty maintaining relationships. I've got an extreme fear of abandonment. I'm still learning how to be a better me.
I have low self-esteem. You'll have to look very far to find a more loving person than me. I love deeply and fiercely.
I love dogs. I love dancing, writing, poetry. Occasionally my posts include poetry. Most of the time it's just me talking to you.
It helps me process things. It helps me remember things. It helps me create a sort of constant reminder of who I am.
I'm grateful to those of you who read my posts and leave a helpful comment. I try to include helpful links to resources and stuff, when I can.
This platform means the world to me. I've met some really wise, amazing and supportive people. Thank you for giving me a space where I can literally just be me - no holds barred.
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